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Publicado: Sunday 26 de April de 2026, 21:03 Hello, visitor! Article about dating a man 12 years older: Do you think it s ok to date a guy 12 years younger than you? a new mode Age difference. Do you think it's ok to date a guy 12 years younger than you? ENTER THE SITE Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Age difference. Do you think it's ok to date a guy 12 years younger than Age difference. Do you think it's ok to date a guy 12 years younger than you? Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Age difference. Do you think it's ok to date a guy 12 years younger than you? This topic has 29 replies and was last updated 4 years ago by Jay . Viewing 25 posts - 1 through 25 (of 30 total) October 12, 2016 at 11:13 am #570339 Reply. Hi everyone, I’m here for your advice. I’m in my late thirties, separated from my husband, have two kids and have recently reentered the dating scene. I met a guy on an online dating site about a week ago, we began chatting and it seems we get on really well together. It’s been only a week, but we talk every day and he has recently asked me out for a date. I said ok, so we’re supposed to meet on Friday morning for a coffee. The problem is that he’s 12 years younger than me, he is in his mid-twenties. He’s fun, energetic and nice, but I sometimes worry about the age difference between us. We talked about it once, he asked me if it bothers me and I told him it does bother me a bit, but not that much. He said it does not bother him at all. We talked about a possible relationship too, he said he really likes talking to me and would like to meet me IRL and then we’ll see where the relationship goes. I like him too, but sometimes I’m just not sure if the age difference between us might become a burden later on or not. I know some couples where the guy is much younger and the relationship seems to be fine, but I’m not sure if they are not execptions to the rule. what do you think? Am I overthinking it? What would you do? October 12, 2016 at 11:53 am #570343 Reply. Won’t work… sorry… just have fun when you can but don’t get serious. October 12, 2016 at 12:04 pm #570344 Reply. Way too much thought being put into this. Just go out for coffee and see how it goes. I think he’s way too young, this would more so be for fun. October 12, 2016 at 12:18 pm #570346 Reply. Wouldn’t work out that well… I am seeing a guy right now he was married to a woman who was 11 years older than him, he ended up divorcing her. Reasons…. she was always saying I am a kid, wasn’t respectful towards me as I was younger than her etc. We as woman mature must faster than men and 12 years is a really big age gap. October 12, 2016 at 12:22 pm #570347 Reply. Check out the term MILF. I find guys that age are really looking for a MILF to brag to their friends about later. October 12, 2016 at 12:24 pm #570348 Reply. Let’s face it. The odds are really stacked against this working. He’s not at the same life stage as you at all. I doubt he’s even considered the difficulty of dating a woman with kids, let alone thought of possibly taking them on as his own one day. And what if he wants kids? Most men seem to want to start families aged 30-35. By then, you won’t be able to have children. Also, what shared goals and interests will you have? You’re focused on your family and he’s just setting out in life. I don’t know anyone with a successful relationship where the woman is much younger than the man. I know of relationships the other way around, but women are generally a lot more mature and sensible than men are, so it seems to work OK that way. Online dating is full of men that aren’t very serious anyway. There is a chance he just likes the idea of a MILF. It’s way to early to tell anything. I wouldn’t bother but, if you do like him, meet him and see how it goes. Proceed with caution though! Don’t allow yourself to fall for him or get too involved for a few months. October 12, 2016 at 12:38 pm #570349 Reply. Depending on the maturity of the guy. If he is mature hard working and responsible why not? I have dated a guy almost 20 years younger and he was the best and sweetest thing that happened in my life. He wanted to marry me but the age difference was to much. I was worried about the future.He is dating a woman 11 years older than him. He likes older woman. I regret not staying with him. October 12, 2016 at 12:49 pm #570351 Reply. The major issue would be maturity and whether the two of you can match. October 12, 2016 at 12:51 pm #570353 Reply. I dated a guy who was 6 years younger than me. He was quite mature in other areas but still very immature when it came to family, respect and goals in life. I am a single mom of two he loved my kids however things didn’t work out as he realized he wants to explore other girls as well. This bug of exploration is very hurtful and is common in younger guys. I am not with a guy older than me and I’ve noticed a huge difference. Trust me, being a single mom I know, you need a man not a boy! October 12, 2016 at 1:05 pm #570359 Reply. I’m not trying to change the subject, but why is it so taboo for a woman to hook up with a much younger man, but it’s cool if an older man hooks up with a much younger woman. I don’t get it. October 12, 2016 at 1:07 pm #570362 Reply. Thanks for your opinions! I was considering two things when thinking about this issue: my ex husband was 10 years older than me and he always used the age gap between us to prove his superiority. Actually, when I was younger I was always attracted to older men, but never had any really good expereince with them. The other thing is that 2 of my best frinds ended up with guys much younger than they are. One is 6 years younger, the other one is 13 years younger. They are married and have been together for more than 5 years. As I see their relationship is gorgeous. Well, of course I’m not sure about this guy yet as I hardly know him. We don’t get too serious in our chats though, we usually joke with each other and tease each other in a funny way, he stays respectful though. I enjoy this for the time being, it adds to my life, but of course it’s just fun. The only thing I noticed is that he absolutely beats me in film, he often talks about films and spent most of his college years watching movies, while I was rearing children, so I don’t know most of the films he mentions. I don’t mind it, but sometimes I’m a bit embarrassed because I feel so ignorant -he doesn’t make me feel like this though. October 12, 2016 at 1:08 pm #570364 Reply. It doesn’t work in both ways. My sister was married to a guy who was 13 years older than her. After 14 years of marriage they are divorced. not saying it will never work but age difference makes a huge impact on your life.Maturity level, financial goals, family planning all of this comes in the way. Especially if someone has a kid and the other partner has never been married, they can’t relate to you. October 12, 2016 at 1:16 pm #570366 Reply. I think if you know people who have successful relationships with a younger man, you should ask them. How did they know the guy was serious, would take on their kids and get married etc? How did they differentiate between them and the men who wanted a MILF for a bit of fun or a sugar mamma? They can probably give you better advice than us! October 12, 2016 at 1:16 pm #570367 Reply. Before my marriage, I dated some guys who were my age, but it didn’t wotk out with them either. Sometimes I wonder how much burden does age difference really add to a relationship, or is it really just up to the personality of the guy and if we are compatible together. the truth must be somewhere in the middle. October 12, 2016 at 1:39 pm #570370 Reply. Sad but true. If you are looking for the possibility of hot sex, fun energetic times and feeling young again – by all means explore the possibility of this relationship. If you are looking something more long term – just know the chances are slim. Though I will not repeat the generalities already listed above (regarding the differing stages of life, the matter of children, etc) of why the younger woman-older man scenario is not that common, I will say that another reason you don’t see it as much is that a lot of younger men cannot feel proud dating (long term) or marrying a woman that is older than him because it is not respected by their peers. People can be really cruel regarding these types of non-traditional relationships and men crave respect sometimes more than love. I think that times are changing in this regard but there is still a very long way to go. Of course there are going to be exceptions to this rule – brave spirits who can withstand the judgments of others – but I would also dare say they are rare. Dating a man 12 years younger Woman dating man 12 years younger Dating a man 12 years older Dating a woman 12 years younger

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